Thursday, March 31, 2005

It has been decided...

Decisions, decisions....we are making decisions every day of our life with varying degrees of importance. But although some decisions may not be 'critical' in a way or another, we can still be stuck in a vexing dilemma. We start by weighing the pros and cons...but what if the pros and cons are at equilibrium? Whatever should I do? 'Markets clear' but not my mind. It's still undecided...wondering, assessing, searching for a sign as to which direction to take but to no avail. Well, it is at this point that friends' words of advice are of great influence. Here's a case where a good friend of mine 'help' me decide whether I should do advance one ballet exam.

Reasons against it: 1)I don't see myself taking advance two ballet in the future. 2)It's not cheap-bout $1200+ in all to get a certification + time required + physical and mental stress. 3)The cert obtained will get me nowhere unless I decide to dance to live (which, well...nah, most prob not).
Reasons for it: 1)It will be an accomplishment/self-satisfaction. 2)After all, I've come a looong way...it'll be a shame not to finish it since it’s only 2 more grades to go. 3) If I don't do the exams, KX will not do the exams too (saying to me, "no pressure, debby''). Hahaha...yeah right.

So this kinda decided for me. =) Okay KX, we can do it! we'll be each other's motivation yea?
See, friends are a huge part of us. They evolve around our lives that's for sure. I feel that one doesn’t need many friends; only a few good reliable ones and you are blessed. A friend read my blog said(referring to the part where I'd mentioned about bottled feelings), that I should share my problems so that friends could share the burden, give advice/opinion or be a reminder. And that she will lend me a listening ear. Aww...that's so sweet of her. Although, all this I already know but it's just that she said it and I know that she's one true friend I can rely on.

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