It has been decided...
Decisions, decisions....we are making decisions every day of our life with varying degrees of importance. But although some decisions may not be 'critical' in a way or another, we can still be stuck in a vexing dilemma. We start by weighing the pros and cons...but what if the pros and cons are at equilibrium? Whatever should I do? 'Markets clear' but not my mind. It's still undecided...wondering, assessing, searching for a sign as to which direction to take but to no avail. Well, it is at this point that friends' words of advice are of great influence. Here's a case where a good friend of mine 'help' me decide whether I should do advance one ballet exam.
Reasons against it: 1)I don't see myself taking advance two ballet in the future. 2)It's not cheap-bout $1200+ in all to get a certification + time required + physical and mental stress. 3)The cert obtained will get me nowhere unless I decide to dance to live (which, well...nah, most prob not).
Reasons for it: 1)It will be an accomplishment/self-satisfaction. 2)After all, I've come a looong way...it'll be a shame not to finish it since it’s only 2 more grades to go. 3) If I don't do the exams, KX will not do the exams too (saying to me, "no pressure, debby''). Hahaha...yeah right.
So this kinda decided for me. =) Okay KX, we can do it! we'll be each other's motivation yea?
See, friends are a huge part of us. They evolve around our lives that's for sure. I feel that one doesn’t need many friends; only a few good reliable ones and you are blessed. A friend read my blog said(referring to the part where I'd mentioned about bottled feelings), that I should share my problems so that friends could share the burden, give advice/opinion or be a reminder. And that she will lend me a listening ear. Aww...that's so sweet of her. Although, all this I already know but it's just that she said it and I know that she's one true friend I can rely on.
Reasons against it: 1)I don't see myself taking advance two ballet in the future. 2)It's not cheap-bout $1200+ in all to get a certification + time required + physical and mental stress. 3)The cert obtained will get me nowhere unless I decide to dance to live (which, well...nah, most prob not).
Reasons for it: 1)It will be an accomplishment/self-satisfaction. 2)After all, I've come a looong way...it'll be a shame not to finish it since it’s only 2 more grades to go. 3) If I don't do the exams, KX will not do the exams too (saying to me, "no pressure, debby''). Hahaha...yeah right.
So this kinda decided for me. =) Okay KX, we can do it! we'll be each other's motivation yea?
See, friends are a huge part of us. They evolve around our lives that's for sure. I feel that one doesn’t need many friends; only a few good reliable ones and you are blessed. A friend read my blog said(referring to the part where I'd mentioned about bottled feelings), that I should share my problems so that friends could share the burden, give advice/opinion or be a reminder. And that she will lend me a listening ear. Aww...that's so sweet of her. Although, all this I already know but it's just that she said it and I know that she's one true friend I can rely on.

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